Friday, January 21, 2011

Oreo

I wanted to write about Oreo while she is still with me because I don't know that I'll be able to do it when she is gone.  Oreo is my 12yo black lab mutt who has cancer and her time is running out.  I took her to the vet earlier this week and it was confirmed that the cancer has probably really spread throughout her body as her lymph nodes are enlarged.  So, the vet and I had a quality of life talk because I don't want Oreo to be suffering, but yet, I don't want to make a rash decision before it's necessary.  The vet gave me some great advice - quality of life means eating, drinking, pooping, peeing and enjoying her favorite things.  Especially the favorite things...if she is still doing the first 4 things, but stops doing her favorite things, then it's probably time.  The vet stated that it could be anytime. 


Oreo - you will be my one and only puppy that I buy from a pet store (there are too many animals in shelters/rescues that need homes).  You were 8 weeks old with this rolly poly tummy.  Little did we know that that tummy was actually full of gas and yucky stuff - we quickly found out as we were bringing you home and you pooped in the back of the Explorer... and not solid poops.  UGH!!  You were so small, that you fit between the slats of our picket fence.  We had to chicken wire the fence and unfortunately it was the chicken wire which blinded you in your left eye at just 10 weeks old.  You never let it hinder you and I'm guessing that 90% of people don't even know that you were blind. 

Once you were potty trained, M thought it was cute to have you sleep in bed with us.  You slept between his legs.  I stated to M that it's a bad idea b/c you're going to be a big dog.  My warning was brushed off and to M's dismay, you got big and he became uncomfortable having you sleep on the bed.  You always slept on his side and between his legs.  HA HA HA!!  When you got to be 70lbs, M tried to get you to sleep on the floor, but you were having NONE of that and jumped onto the bed.  Made your 3-5 circles, plopped down between his legs and started snoring.


When we brought you home, we already had a dog, Andra.  Little did we know that Andra really didn't like other dogs and she beat the crap out of you more than once, but you held your own and took the abuse.  We also had kitties Baxter and Amos who you became fast friends with.  I'm not sure what Amos will do when you are gone.  There are more than a few times per week that I walk in the door and find you and Amos cuddled together on the couch.  You are his best friend. 


Speaking of cuddling, you love sleeping in small spaces.  Must be from the crate training we did with you.  You would always find small spaces to curl up into - not easy for a large dog!  Boxes, suitcases, bathtubs.   The bathtub is your favorite and unfortunately with your age, you cant get into the bathtub easily these days.  Whenever we couldn't find you, we just had to look in the bathtub.


Oh the things you put up with.  First there was the bully Andra, then we got Sammy.  Sorry.  Sammy wasn't fixed when we brought him home and there were more than a few times Sammy "took advantage of you".  Sorry for that.  Around the age of 7, we got Dakota - an 8mo Malamute puppy.  You looked at us saying "are you kidding me?".  Dakota was full of energy and puppyism.  You had fun with him and put up with him biting your ears, pouncing on you and just being wild.  THEN, something even more sinister happened....a human baby was brought into your life!!  Oh boy!!

Oreo, you are D's cuddle buddy.  You allow him to lay on you, sit on you, pull your ears, cover you with blankets and more than once he tried to dress you up.  You would just lay there when multiple toddlers were poking at you, tripping over you or patting your head just a little harder than what you probably liked.  You just take it and even roll over on your back and get some belly rubs.
BFF's!  D is using Amos as a pillow.
Oreo, Amos and D napping together

You are also a smart dog, but also a little dumb.  I took you to advanced dog training which got you to do things just by hand signals.  If I raised my hand in the air, you laid down.   Arm out to the side and you'd sit.  If I said, "round round" you'd immediately walk to my left side and sit - ready to heel.   Heeling?  Nah, you never got that concept.  Pulling on the leash - always!!  UGH, I disliked walking you on a leash.  Even now, at 12, you still pull!! 

You have been a wonderful dog and companion.  You have always been a laid back dog who just allowed life to change without complaint.  You've been in 5 different houses in 2 different states.  You've been camping many times, you loved to swim, and I couldn't ever run out of raw hide bones in the house or you WHINED!!  WHINING, you've perfected the most annoying dog whining ever.  Even though it drives me crazy, I'll miss your whining.  I'll miss having you greet me at the door.  I'll miss seeing you and Amos cuddled together.  So many things I'll miss.  I'll be heartbroken to tell D about you no longer being here and he will be very sad (just as I will be)

As I sit here looking at you sleeping on the couch, I hope that you know you were loved.  I hope that we gave you a wonderful life - I know we did.  I've enjoyed every minute of having you in my life.  I may not always show it, but you do bring me joy. 

4 comments:

  1. Oh my gosh Tina. That was the most amazing letter to Oreo. I have tears and I have never met him. What a sweet dog. You are very lucky to have such a great pet. Im sorry to hear that he is not doing well. That is the worst thing about owning a pet, that they get older. Please know that I am here if you ever need to talk about him before or after. I lost my cat after 14 years and she was my baby. It is so very hard. Jeri

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  2. Cancer's a bitch no matter who it visits. I'm sorry Oreo's suffering, but I agree with the vet - if she's doing favorite things, she's not quite ready to leave you. How very sweet to write her a letter.

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  3. Remember when you were looking for a writing piece? Well, my friend, this was truly one for the books. You know I also had an Oreo, so my heart goes out to you twice over. Enjoy your days together!!!

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  4. Oreo's a very lucky dog. I really think that dogs are better than most people. The unconditional love - the way they are always happy to be with you - even when you're in a bad mood. You're doing all the right things - and I hope that when the time comes, you'll know. Dogs don't know how to let go... loyal to the very end. That's why all dogs go to heaven.

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